An Alpha male is someone who is strong and confident. Every man wants to be like him and every woman wants to be with him.
But, how do we become an alpha male? In this article, we’re gonna discuss what is an alpha male and how to become an alpha male.
What is an Alpha Male?
An Alpha male is someone who is strong, confident, charming, and passionate. He knows what he wants out of life and gets what he wants.
He is a leader and knows how to take control of any situation. He says what’s in his mind and is unapologetic about his decisions.
How to Become an Alpha Male?
Here are the 9 practicable tips you can implement in your life to become an alpha male:-
1. Build a Good Physique
Alpha males have good physiques but betas don’t.
You don’t need to have six-pack abs or a 20-inch biceps to be an alpha, but you need to have a fit and strong body that you feel comfortable in.
A fit and strong body makes you feel good about yourself and helps you make better decisions. A healthy mind can only reside in a healthy body.
You need to start exercising regularly and put only high quality food inside your body.
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2. Get Out of Your Comfort Zone
For Alpha males, the comfort zone doesn’t exist.
You need to start doing things that make you uncomfortable on a regular basis.
Are you afraid to ask that girl out? feel the fear and ask her out anyway. Are you afraid to ask your boss for a raise? Do it anyway. Are you afraid to quit your job and start your own business? feel the fear and do it anyway.
It’s not that alphas don’t feel fear. They do feel fear, but they do things in spite of being fearful. If you are afraid to do something, it means that you must do that thing.
3. Start Caring About Others
Alpha males are leaders while betas are followers.
In order to be a leader and get the best out of people, you must start caring about them.
Alphas speak up whenever they see injustice while betas just don’t care. All a beta cares about is himself.
Start standing up for the weak. Whenever you see an injustice, raise your voice and try to stop that injustice.
4. Start Taking Control of Situations
Alpha males always come forward and take control of the situation.
Whenever you are in a group project with others, come forward and take responsibility for the project. Be a leader and assign everyone tasks so that the project can complete on time.
Whenever you’re about to go out to eat with your girlfriend or friends, make the decision which restaurant to go to.
This doesn’t mean that you need to be a control freak and impose your will on others. Value other people’s opinions too and take their opinion into consideration before making a decision.
Also, take control of your situation too. If you’re not satisfied with wherever you’re in life, take full responsibility for it. Don’t blame others for your situation.
If you’re stuck in a 9-5 job which you don’t like, don’t blame others for it, and don’t just sit and do nothing. A lot of people would just assume that it’s their fate that they have to work a job they hate. Try to find a job that you like or do something on your own that you’ll enjoy doing.
If you’re stuck in an unhealthy and unsatisfactory relationship, don’t be stuck in it. Get out of it immediately.
If you don’t like something about your life, take full responsibility for it and change it or at least try your best to change it.
Alphas know that their fate is in their own hands.
5. Develop a Fashion Sense
Alphas have a good fashion sense while betas don’t.
Work on improving your dressing sense and build a grooming routine. Start taking care of your skin.
You don’t need to become obsessed with the latest fashion trends, but have a basic knowledge of fashion and grooming.
You should know how a shirt, t-shirt or a jeans should fit. Don’t wear too loose or too tight clothes.
Wearing nice fitted clothes not only makes you look respectable but also gives you confidence.
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6. Have a Strong Body Language
You can tell apart an alpha from beta by their body language.
Focus on building a strong and powerful body language. Walk straight keeping your head held high, have a strong handshake, and always look people in the eye while talking. These are some basic rules of strong body language.
You need to have a dominant and confident body language.
When you sit, spread your legs wide open and take your space. Always have an open body posture.
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7. Face Your Problems Head-On
Alphas face their problems head-on while betas run away from their problems.
Whenever you’re faced with a problem, face it head-on. Don’t wish your life to be easier but make yourself tougher.
Alpha males know that overcoming obstacles is what builds character. As the saying goes, “Don’t say why me, say try me”.
If you get fired from your job, don’t be upset over it. Think about the best thing which you can do in that situation, it could be applying for another job or doing something on your own. If you get dumped by your girlfriend, go find an even better woman.
8. Don’t Be Afraid of Confronting Someone
Alpha males are not afraid of confronting someone but beta males are.
You need to stand up for yourself and confront someone when they do something that you don’t like. Don’t keep quiet and suffer in silence.
When someone cuts you in the line, confront that person and tell him to go to the back of the line. When your neighbor blasts loud music at night, go tell them to turn the volume down, and when someone talks to you in a loud voice, tell them to keep their voice low.
Let nobody disrespect you and get away with it. If you feel disrespected by someone’s actions or words, confront them and ask them to apologize.
Learn how to fight for your self-defense. An alpha knows how to fight and when to fight. The ‘when to fight’ part is important. You shouldn’t go looking for confrontations or fights, but don’t be afraid to get into one.
9. Say What’s in Your Mind
Don’t be afraid to say what’s in your mind even if it offends some people.
This doesn’t mean, however, that you should intentionally say offensive things to people. But, if your opinion is different from others, voice your opinion in a respectable way.
Don’t use cuss words or a loud voice while voicing your opinion. Use respectable language and a calm tone while saying what’s in your mind.
Don’t just agree with people so they may like you, that’s a beta mentality. If your opinion makes people dislike you, then let it be. Alphas don’t care what anyone else thinks about them. They only care about what they think about themselves.
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Summary
An Alpha male is someone who is strong, confident, charming, and a leader. He comes forward and takes control of situations.
Every man wants to be like him and every woman wants to be with him.
Here are the 9 things you can do to become an alpha male:-
- Build a Good Physique
- Get Out of Your Comfort Zone
- Start Caring About Others
- Start Taking Control of Situations
- Develop a Fashion Sense
- Have a Strong Body Language
- Face Your Problems Head-On
- Don’t Be Afraid of Confronting Someone
- Say What’s in Your Mind
