Some people claim that nofap is for losers. They say that only those people who can’t get a girl do nofap. They say that nofap is a placebo effect and people who think nofap makes their life better are stupid.
In this article, we’re gonna discuss is nofap for losers, is nofap for getting girls, and why do people say nofap is for losers.
What is NoFap?
Before we discuss whether nofap is only for losers or not, we need to know what is nofap.
NoFap is the practice of abstinence from porn and masturbation. Following a nofap lifestyle means not watching porn and not masturbating.
People refrain from porn and masturbation because it has a lot of harmful side effects. Low motivation, anxiety, depression, porn-induced erectile dysfunction(PIED) are just some of the many harmful side effects of excessive PMO(porn, masturbation, orgasm).
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Is NoFap For Losers?
No, NoFap is not for losers. On the contrary, fapping is for losers and nofap is for winners.
Ask yourself if watching other people having sex while stroking your dick is for winners or losers. Do winners stroke their dick while imagining they are having sex with their crush, an actress, or pornstars? No, only losers do that.
It’s like other people are having sex in a room and you walk in and say “oh, don’t mind me, just keep doing what you were doing” and then you pull off your dick and start jerking off while watching them having sex. That’s what porn is, just because it is behind a screen doesn’t make it less weird. Is it something that winners do or losers do?
Not to mention, the genre of porn gets more extreme with time. After a while, “normal” porn won’t satisfy you and you’ll need to switch to some extreme stuff like BDSM, A2M, etc. to keep feeling pleasure. After some time, that will also stop giving you pleasure and you’ll need to switch to even more extreme stuff to keep feeling pleasure. It’s an unending cycle.
Do People Who Can’t Get a Girl Do NoFap?
Some people claim that only those guys do nofap who can’t get a girl, so they expect that they’ll get a girl after doing nofap.
NoFap is not about getting a girl. It has nothing to do with women or girls. Although people experience more women attraction on nofap, this shouldn’t be the primary goal for doing nofap and if someone is doing nofap just to get a girlfriend, then he is doing it for the wrong reasons.
NoFap is about kicking porn and masturbation out of your life. It’s about preserving your sexual energy and utilizing it to achieve your life goals, as sexual energy is one of the strongest forms of energy out there.
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A lot of guys have wives and girlfriends but they still watch porn and jerk off. Why is that? If they are having sex regularly, then why do they need to watch porn and jerk off? That’s because PMO(porn, masturbation, orgasm) is an addiction meaning you won’t enjoy sex as much as you’d enjoy porn and masturbation.
Porn makes you set unrealistic expectations from sex and when those expectations are not met by real sex, people switch to porn to satisfy their feelings.
The truth is porn is not real, it’s acting. Pornstars are actors and they are acting and people confuse that acting for reality and expect their sex to be like that of porn. When they have sex in real life, they get disappointed because their sex is nothing like how they saw it in porn and it makes them keep coming back to porn to satisfy their fantasies.
Why Do People Say NoFap is For Losers?
If nofap is not for losers and it can improve your life then why do people say nofap is for losers?
Well, I’ve observed that there are mainly 3 types of people who say nofap is for losers. Let’s look at those 3 types of people and discuss why do they say that nofap is for losers.
1. People Who Have Never Done NoFap
People who have never done nofap themselves say that nofap is for losers. This is the largest group of people to say that nofap is for losers. Of all the people who say nofap is for losers, 80% of them have never practiced it.
They usually have girlfriends/wife and they think the only purpose of nofap is to get girls and since they already have a girl without doing nofap they think nofap is for losers.
Even though they have a girlfriend/wife, but they still watch other people having sex and jerk off by imagining they are having sex with pornstars.
What sounds like a loser behavior to you:- Watching other people having sex and stroking your dick by imagining having sex with people you’ll never have sex with or not doing so and preserving your sexual energy? You be the judge of it.
2. People Who Tried NoFap But Failed
Some of the people who tried nofap and failed say that nofap is for losers, although they are a small percentage of people.
It’s like someone who appeared for an exam and failed says that only losers qualify for that exam or someone who tries bodybuilding and failed says bodybuilding is for losers. The fact that someone failed at nofap means they were not determined or disciplined enough to do nofap.
And the fact is nofap is not easy, it’s difficult. If you’ve been watching porn and jerking off even before you were a teenager(which most people do) then it’s gonna be one of the most difficult tasks you’d ever do.
The fact that everyone can’t do nofap proves that nofap is for highly determined and disciplined people, and those people are certainly not losers. You need to have a strong character, willpower, motivation, and discipline to do nofap and losers don’t have those qualities.
Losers, on the other hand, crave instant gratification. When they feel horny, instead of going out, meeting women, and having sex with a real woman, they watch someone else have sex and they try to satisfy their horniness by watching other people having sex.
3. People Who Are Too Addicted to Even Think About Doing NoFap
People who are too addicted to PMO(porn, masturbation, orgasm) to even think about doing nofap say that nofap is for losers.
These types of people usually watch porn and jerk off every day and they are dependent on PMO to give them pleasure. Whenever they are sad, angry, frustrated, etc. they switch to porn and masturbation to suppress those negative emotions.
The way to know if you’re addicted to porn and masturbation or not is to go 30 days without it. If you can go 30 days without it, then you’re not addicted to it, but if you can’t go 30 days without it then you’re addicted to it and you must do nofap to get rid of your addiction.
People Who Did NoFap
Famous people like Muhammad Ali, Steve Jobs, Swami Vivekananda, Mike Tyson, Dalai Lama also did nofap. Doing nofap means you value your sexual energy not to waste it on porn and masturbation. Doing nofap means preserving your sexual energy and transmuting it to achieve your life goals, it could be a better physique, improving your craft, starting a business, growing spiritually, etc.
Watching porn and jerking off makes you lethargic and it drains your energy. By not watching porn or jerking off, you’re preserving that energy.
Conclusion
NoFap is not for losers, it’s for people who want to better their life by giving up porn and masturbation. It’s not for everyone, it’s only for highly determined and disciplined individuals who want to preserve their sexual energy and utilize it to achieve their life goals.
