Not all men are created equal, some are high-value man and some are low-value. But, it is possible to go from being a low-value man to a high-value man.
In this article, we’re gonna discuss the 8 signs of a low-value man.
Signs of a Low-Value Man
Here the 8 signs of a low-value man:-
1. He Doesn’t Have Any Drive
A low-value man doesn’t have any ambitions or drive to succeed. He just drifts along with life and accepts whatever life throws at him.
He doesn’t think he is capable enough to change his situation, so he doesn’t take any action.
He goes to a 9-5 job which he hates, comes back home, watches porn or Netflix, and goes to sleep, then repeats that cycle every day.
He is not satisfied with the situation in his life, still, he doesn’t take any action to improve his life. He doesn’t have that desire inside him to improve his life.
That’s the main difference between a high-quality and a low-quality man. If a high-value man is not satisfied with the life he is living, he tries to change it whereas a low-value man does nothing and just accepts whatever situation he is in.
2. He Complains a Lot
A low-value man complains a lot about other people and his situation in life.
He often blames others for his faults. He blames his boss, his girlfriend, his friends, his parents, etc. He blames everyone but himself.
He doesn’t take responsibility for his life. He is not satisfied with his job, his relationships and blames others for it.
He often complains about how much over-worked and underpaid he is at work but does nothing to change it. He complains about how he is in an unhappy relationship but does nothing to change it. He complains about how he doesn’t have good friends but does nothing to make good friends.
He complains about everything but does nothing. He has a victim mentality.
3. He Treats People Below Him Poorly
A low-quality man treats people below him poorly.
He talks rudely with waiters and people who are below him at his work.
He needs to put other people down to feel good about himself. Whenever he treats others poorly, he thinks he is being a dominant man, but he is just hiding his insecurities.
4. He is Either a Coward or a Tyrant
A low-value man is either a coward or a tyrant.
Whenever he goes to a restaurant and the waiter messes up his order and brings something else, he either keeps quiet or loudly roars at the waiter. Keeping quiet is a sign of cowardice and loudly screaming at the waiter is a sign of being a tyrant. Both are signs of a low-value man.
A high-value man would call the waiter and tell him that he messed up the order and ask him to bring what he ordered politely.
Similarly, if his girlfriend talked to a guy in a friendly way, a low-value man would lash out at his girlfriend. He is overly jealous and insecure.
5. He Doesn’t Care About Anyone Else
All a low-value man cares about is himself.
He doesn’t think about how others feel. He thinks he is at the center of the universe.
If there is an injustice going on and it doesn’t affect him, he doesn’t care about it. When it starts affecting him, only then he would raise his voice against that injustice.
A high-value man always speaks up against injustices but a low-value man only speaks up when the injustice affects him personally.
6. He Needs Validation From Others
A low-value man needs validation from others to feel good about himself.
Whenever he does something good, he wants others to praise it, only then he can get satisfaction out of his good work. He wants everyone to see and appreciate his good works.
He needs attention from women to feel attractive, praise from his boss to value his work, and appreciation from his friends to feel good about himself.
If he does something good and nobody appreciates him, he’ll think all his efforts went into vain.
A high-value man doesn’t need appreciation or validation from others. He always does what is right, whether someone appreciates him or not. But, a low-value man can’t live without receiving appreciation from others.
7. He Doesn’t Take Care of His Body
A low-value man doesn’t take care of his body.
This doesn’t mean, however, that you need to have six-pack abs or 20-inch biceps to be a high-value man, but you need a fit and healthy body.
If a high-value man is not satisfied with his body, he’ll work on changing it whereas a low-value man would do nothing.
A low-value man rarely exercises and shoves himself with junk and unhealthy foods. He doesn’t take care of his skin and has no fashion sense.
You don’t need to be obsessed with the latest fashion trends to be a high-value man, but you need to have a basic knowledge about grooming and fashion.
You should know how a shirt, t-shirt, or jeans should fit, and only wear nice fitted clothes.
A low-value man doesn’t care about his appearance.
8. He Consumes Too Much Porn
A low-value man consumes too much porn.
He runs behind instant gratifications. He watches too much porn either because he is single or in an unfulfilling relationship.
He uses porn as a stress-reliever as a result he has a compulsion to watch porn. Watching porn makes you see women as sex objects.
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High-value men don’t run behind instant gratifications. They understand that delayed gratification is what makes you successful.
A high-value man would go out, meet with women and have sex with real women whereas a low-value man would just stay at home, watch porn, and jerks off.
This doesn’t mean that you need to be in a relationship to be a high-value man, but watching too much porn and jerking off instead of mingling with real women is a sign of a low-value man.
Summary
Here are the 8 signs of a low-value man:-
- He Doesn’t Have Any Drive
- He Complains a Lot
- He Treats People Below Him Poorly
- He is Either a Coward or a Tyrant
- He Doesn’t Care About Anyone Else
- He Needs Validation From Others
- He Doesn’t Take Care of His Body
- He Consumes Too Much Porn
