There are 2 types of men on the planet, high-value, and low-value. But, what makes a man perceived as high-value or low-value? What qualities in a man make him come across as a high-value or low-value.
In this article, we’re gonna discuss the top 8 traits of a high-value man. If these characteristics/traits are present in a man, then he is a high-value man.
Traits of a High-Value Man
Here are the top 8 traits of a high-value man:-
1. He Has Ambitions And Drive
A high-value man is full of ambitions. He has a strong drive and desire to succeed in life.
A low-value man has no ambitions or drive. He just drifts along with life and accepts whatever life throws at him. Whereas, a high-value man knows exactly what he wants out of life and doesn’t settle for anything less.
A high-value man is always thinking about how he can improve himself and get closer to his goals. He sets ambitious goals for himself and works on them every single day. He is a goal-driven individual.
Having a purpose or a goal in your life gives you meaning and something to look forward to and be excited about. When you don’t have a goal in your life, your life is monotonous and you tend to accept whatever comes your way.
2. He Takes Full Responsibility For His Actions
A high-value man takes full responsibility for his actions and his situation in life.
If a high-value man is not satisfied with his life, he works on changing it whereas a low-value man does nothing.
If he is stuck in a 9-5 job which he hates, a high-value man would look for a way out. Either he will apply for another job or start his own business. If he is in an unhappy relationship, he will work on fixing his relationship or get out of it if it is beyond repair.
A high-value man doesn’t just accept whatever life throws at him. If he is not happy about something, he’ll go change it.
Also, a high-value man takes full responsibility for his actions. If he does something that harms someone, he’ll be a man about it and come forward and apologies. He knows that every action has consequences, and he is ready to face any consequences for his actions.
3. He Treats People Nicely
A high-value man treats everyone nicely, especially people below him.
This doesn’t mean, however, that he is too nice. He sets boundaries and doesn’t let anyone cross those boundaries. He is not a people pleaser.
He is assertive in his actions. He knows where to act nicely and where to act tough. You can’t get through life by being too nice or too tough. There has to be a balance.
An example would be if a waiter messes up an order at a restaurant, a low-value man will either keep quiet or starts screaming at the waiter. But a high-value man would call the waiter, tell him that he messed up the order, and ask him to correct his mistakes politely.
Being quiet is a sign of cowardice and being loud is a sign of a tyrant. Both are signs of a low-value man. Being assertive is a sign of a high-value man.
4. He Has Good Social Skills
A high-value man has good social and interpersonal skills.
He is a leader and knows how to lead people by example. He knows how to get the best out of people.
Being able to form connections, make someone understand your point, understand someone else’s point, network, build communities of like-minded people, are crucial skills in life and a high-value man has all these skills.
A high-value man understands power dynamics and holds a powerful position in society. He knows how to talk to people in a way that they understand and knows how to get what he wants out of people.
High-value men surround themselves with like-minded people. You can tell whether a man is high-value or low-value by looking at his social circle.
5. He Doesn’t Need Validation From Others
A high-value man doesn’t need validation from others to feel good about himself.
He is a decision-maker and is unapologetic about his decisions.
He doesn’t need attention from women to feel he is attractive and doesn’t need praise from his boss to feel good about his work. Whether someone appreciates him or not, he always does what is right.
A low-value man has an image to maintain whereas a high-value man doesn’t care what anyone else thinks about him. He only cares about what he thinks about himself.
This doesn’t mean that a high-value man is self-centered. He cares about other people, but he doesn’t care about other people’s opinions about him.
6. He Takes Care of His Body
A high-value man takes utmost care of his body.
He treats his body like a temple because he knows it is one. He exercises regularly and puts only high-quality foods inside his body.
Also, a high-value man takes care of his skin and has a fashion sense. You don’t need to be obsessed about latest fashion trends to be a high-value man, but you need to have a basic understanding of grooming and fashion.
He cares about his appearance and knows how a shirt, t-shirt, or jeans should fit. He wears only nice fitted clothes. Wearing nice fitted clothes not only makes you look respectable but also gives you confidence.
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7. He Doesn’t Consume Porn
A high-value man doesn’t consume too much porn or masturbates.
He doesn’t look at other people having sex and please himself. That’s what porn is, looking at other people having sex and pleasing yourself.
A high-value man conserves his sexual energy and transmutes that sexual energy to achieve his goals.
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A low-value man runs behind instant gratification whereas a high-value man knows delayed gratification is what makes you achieve things.
A low-value man would consume porn and masturbate on a regular basis while a high-value man would go out and meet real women.
8. He Has High Self-Esteem
A high-value man thinks highly of himself.
This doesn’t mean that he is egotistical. It means he has confidence in his abilities to achieve the goals that he sets for himself.
A high-value man doesn’t think that he is better than everyone else and everyone else is below him. He knows that everyone is unique in their own way and he doesn’t compare himself with anyone.
Summary
Here are the top 7 traits of a high-value man:-
- He Has Ambitions And Drive
- He Takes Full Responsibility For His Actions
- He Treats People Nicely
- He Has Good Social Skills
- He Doesn’t Need Validation From Others
- He Takes Care of His Body
- He Doesn’t Consume Porn
- He Has High Self-Esteem
