We, as people, always strive to become better. That’s what separates us from animals.
We, as men, should always look for improving ourselves. Self-improvement is a lifelong journey. We, men, should always look to become better. In this article, I’m gonna list the top 6 ways to become a better man.
Here are the 6 things that you can do to become a better man:-
1. Be Independent
Being independent is freedom. Being independent means not depending on anyone for foods, cloths and shelter.
If you’re someone who is in school/college, your first goal should be to become independent, meaning no longer needing monetary support from your parents or anyone else.
The sooner you become independent in life, the sooner you’ll start taking responsibility for yourself. A self-dependent man is a dangerous man.
Being dependent on someone stops you from achieving your full potential and also stops you from coming out of your comfort zone.
If you can’t find the job of your dreams, go find a shitty job that just pays the bill. Paying your own bills puts the responsibility on your shoulders and it makes you come up with creative ways to make money.
If you’re already independent and pay your own bills, you’re doing good. If you have a family, you must provide for the family.
Getting a job shouldn’t be the end of your learning process. Getting a job doesn’t mean that you can put your life goals in a bucket and put it away. Real learning starts after you graduate.
2. Take Care of Your Body And Appearance
Like the saying goes, health is wealth.
A strong mind only resides in a strong body. You must take care of your body like it is your greatest asset. A fit and healthy body help you make better decisions.
If you are currently underweight or overweight or obese, there is nothing to worry about. Getting in shape is a process and with enough determination and discipline, you can achieve the body of your dreams.
I’ve been both overweight and fit, and let me tell you it makes a huge difference. Being overweight makes you feel lazy most of the time and being in shape helps you take better decisions and be proactive. You’ll feel a huge difference in how you feel and act once you get in shape.
If you are currently overweight and are looking to lose weight, check out my article about how I lost 30 kgs in 6 months following only 4 simple steps by clicking here.
You also need to take care of your appearance. How you dress shows how you feel about yourself. Dressing well means you value yourself and take pride in your appearance. Not caring about your appearance means you like to slack and don’t take pride in your appearance.
Take care of your skin, have a grooming routine, and develop a fashion sense. Now, you don’t need to be obsessed with fashion, just have a basic knowledge about how a shirt, t-shirt, jeans, etc. should fit. Also, understand which type of outfits should be worn on what occasions.
If you don’t have a grooming routine and want to develop one, check out my article on 6 male grooming habits for better skin by clicking here.
Check out my article on must-have t-shirts for men by clicking here, and my article on must-have shoes for men by clicking here.
3. Build Something You Love
It’s the greatest joy for a man to build something he loves. It’s the best source of fulfillment for a man.
Building something you care about gives you something to look forward to, something to be excited about, and something to work hard for. A man on a mission is always a happy man.
Building something you care about= A business= A source of joy and fulfillment
Not building Anything= No source of joy and a feeling like something is missing
Building something you don’t care about= A job= Not much joy
Now, this doesn’t mean that getting a job is bad or you should quit your job and start a business. What this means is have something to work on side-by-side with a job. You don’t need to build a million-dollar empire to feel joy or fulfillment, you could build something small like a website, an online shopping store, or learn a skill and offer it to people(freelancing).
When you have something that you are excited about and are willing to work hard for, your life will feel meaningful. We, as men, enjoy building, that’s what gives us the ultimate joy.
4. Have Manly Hobbies
Hobbies are important for men. Hobbies can bring joy (as well as pain), expand creativity, sharpen one’s wits, teach valuable life skills and help you become a better man.
Some of the hobbies that I recommend are:-
- Reading
- Fishing
- Camping/Backpacking
- Hiking
- Biking
- Martial Arts/Boxing
These are just some examples. To know about the manly hobbies that you can develop, check out this article.
Hobbies can’t be developed overnight. Pick whatever hobby you like and stick to it until you get good at it and start enjoying it.
Your hobbies will help you develop your life-skills and help you become a better man.
5. Be Compassionate
Being compassionate is a strength that only a few people have. Start caring about others and do whatever you can to help others without expecting anything in return.
There’s a quote:- “You can’t have a perfect day without helping someone who can’t possibly give you anything in return”. Try to help at least one individual every day in whatever way you can.
Being compassionate is a sign of a mature and strong man. If you want to improve as a man, start being compassionate. Start seeing your compassion as your strength.
6. Don’t Overthink
Don’t try to overthink things. It’s completely fine if you haven’t figured out what to do with your life.
In this age of social media, it’s easy to think that everyone has figured it out except you. In reality, nobody has figured it out. Becoming a better man is a lifelong journey. Tackle life’s problems as they come.
Sometimes, we feel like we are not good enough. We put too much pressure on ourselves. If you haven’t figured out what to do with your life, that’s OK, you’ll figure it out.
If you already know what to do with your life, that’s good. Keep working on your goals.
Summary
Here are the 6 things you can do to become a better man:-
- Be Independent
- Take Care of Your Body And Appearance
- Build Something You Love
- Have manly Hobbies
- Be Compassionate
- Don’t Overthink
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